“Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy. Every healthy relationship is built on a foundation of honesty and trust.” Dave Willis. I have had series of relationships, ones with family, some with close friends when I used to have them and the ones I have had with girls, ladies, women but one thing I have realized is that secrets and lies killed most of these relationship from both sides.
I have learned that in every relationship, every time you lie, it brings you a little closer to the end of the relationship. Two people who are having something intimate are expected to handle their relationship well, cherish each other and keep nothing from each other. But when one is a liar, obviously, anyone who lies, keeps secrets, It will be impossible to stop that person from doing what he or she feels like doing because if you do, he or she will start lying to you to continue doing it.
In an endearing relationship, telling the truth and making the person cries is better than telling a lie and making the person smile; when the truth reveals itself, the person will be sad for the rest of his or her life. We need to know today that lying is one of the quickest ways to ruin a beautiful relationship.
Secrets and lies, have killed many relationships and have led many to hate each other whereas, telling the truth will make you friends for life. Lying or keeping secrets from your partner will end up in total mess and no matter how careful you are, you will get caught.
A woman who is asking her man about something secretive he might have committed already know the answer, once the man lies, it will demoralize her and that’s like crumpling up a perfect piece of paper. You can smooth it over but it’s never going to be the same again. So, if you want a long term relationship, follow the simple rule. No Lies!
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