This message was sent to a friend, Esther Ijewere, founder and executive director of Rubbies Ink Initiative, the sender of the message needs her advice in tackling a particular issue concerning a married man she who dumped her when she least expected.
“I have been dating a married man for over a year now, we met on Facebook, please before you judge read to the end. When I started dating this man I didn’t know he was married , I found out six months after we started seeing each other but I was into him and couldn’t stop, I was in love let’s just call it that, head over heels.
I was the shadow girl, he treated me well and made me feel good, what is most surprising is that one day while I was on Facebook I saw that he commented on my friends post, I saw it through notification, I reached out to my friend instead of him and she told me he is her boyfriend, in her words her sugar daddy and by my calculation he started seeing her just a month after he asked me out, to be fair I don’t think he knows she is my friend but when I compared messages on whatsapp and SMS with my friend it’s same tone he uses in chatting with us.
He even takes care of her more than me from what she told me, perhaps because I played the good and independent girl. He knew I wasn’t with him for his money . I am hurt and devastated sister, I asked him and he told me to my face that I am not his wife neither is my friend , she is not even bothered by the way, she said it was all about the goodies for her .
I was almost going to get pregnant for this guy, to show how much I love him, he had plans for me or maybe he was fooling me now that I look back, I am angry and bitter, his facebook name is XYZ and you can contact my friend to ask her too if you feel I’m lying.
I want to tell his wife, this is the only way I feel I can be free from this pain; He is nonchalant and even called my bluff saying I only satisfied his marital lack while my friend was just an extra.
I am very sad sister. At 37 , how can I allow myself to be fooled, worst part is, I didn’t cheat on him in all my period with him sister, I was very true and sincere, I chased away other men for him and now he treats me like trash.”
Dear reader, what advice do you have for her please?
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